Vindication

chinese_symbols_for_vindication_9827_2_97Short and sweet…if you’re new to this…if you do the work – I promise you…despite the shock and disbelief (because this WAS NOT A BREAK UP WITH A NORMAL PERSON)…despite all of it…everything you’re going to learn…and everything you are going to go through on this journey…remember this…keep this in your back pocket…

There will come a day when you look back and no matter how much you try to find some kind of ‘redeeming’ quality in order to formulate some semblance of closure…you won’t be able to find one thing…not one ounce of anything redeeming about them because it will be about character and you will own that this person had NONE…not one one thousandth of an inch of character…

AND…you won’t feel sad, or disappointed…you won’t hate…you won’t care – and you’ll be happy that you don’t…

BUT…

You might forever be cognizant of the fact that there are people out there beyond the psychobabble and labels…past the reasoning and rationalizing and ‘intellectual conclusions’…despite the toil, trouble, pain, energy and investment you thought you made…who are simply bottom feeders and you will accept your powerlessness over that…

You will realize their departure was your greatest blessing and more than that…how ‘overwhelmingly immense’ their insignificance is in relation to the universe (how’s that for an OXYmoron?)…and you will be at peace…because none of it will matter…

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